Men facing divorce are at a disadvantage in US Courts. There are many reasons for this cultural, religious, and just plain carelessness on the part of men. If you ignore this problem it can cost you tens of thousands of dollars. Here are Top 3 Divorce Tactics That Her Divorce Lawyer Doesn’t Want You to Know About:

1. Keep your head during the divorce. If you are facing divorce it is likely you will be down and this is normal. The hopes you put in your marriage have been dashed. You could be falsely accused and again betrayed. If you feel sympathy for her – don’t, with loss of love trust is no longer there – you don’t know what she will do and it could cost you deerly. Divorces aren’t fair and you have to keep yourself up and believe that you will achieve the outcome that you want and look to your own needs and goals. Keep perspective and fight for the things you need out of this divorce.

2. Deal with the money first Joint accounts of any kind are a problem, be sure to take care of them. Do this as quickly as you can. You can’t control what she may be doing and it is likely she is behaving with only her needs in mind. While there was once love and trust now you are vulnerable in this important area. Protect yourself in this most important area.

3. If there is an income gap between you and your wife where her income is significantly less than yours, then you must try to bring the two closer. You must find a way to lower your income and raise hers. Have a CPA look at your income and what you might do. Get a report about your soon to be Ex’ skills and their value in the local work force. If you go to court and she’s a stay at home wife with no other income than you then you are on the wrong end of the automatic formulas for support and asset distribution. These reports are evidence that can help you get things into balance and compel your soon-to-be Ex back into the workforce. You can likely save thousands of dollars.

Thousands upon thousands of men are paying way too much in child support and alimony and they don’t even know it! These poor men are struggling to make their monthly payments while their Ex or soon to be Ex is using the extra money to get “beauty treatments,” to buy new clothes, to make payments on the fancy new car they just bought and much more!

If your life is now plagued by divorce and you are a man, you need insider tactics to come out of divorce court without being striped of everything you’ve worked for. Get the tactics to win your divorce.